Forgiveness After an Affair...Is it Possible?

Choose One: Get rid of the images? Will he cheat again? How I trust again? How do I forgive? Talk about the details?

Is forgiveness possible after an affair? It is possible, but do you really feel that you want to forgive your spouse for being unfaithful to you? They may desperately want you to forgive them, but do you feel like this is something that you can or that you even want to do?

I have been in this situation before. It is extremely difficult to even think about being able to forgive your spouse. I was hurt, and angry as I am sure you are too.

This is not just a little mistake that has been made. This is a very serious concern. This is the person that you have at one time, trusted and confided in more than anyone. This trust has been broken, and it is very difficult to simply get over this.

You are brokenhearted, betrayed by your best friend, and your own sense of self-worth has basically been destroyed. Considering all of this, it is very difficult to forgive your spouse, much less even begin the healing process.

In the program that I used to get over my heartbreak, and betrayal, the author has quite a few fascinating points. One thing that Dr. Gunzburg will teach you is this...You don't HAVE to forgive your spouse to move on with your marriage.

For more help and info, please check out How to Survive an Affair

How to Survive an Affair..

How do you survive after an affair? This can be one of the most horrible and important questions that you may ever have to ask yourself. It can also be a question that you thought you would never have to face or ask yourself. Life happens, and we cannot predict what can or will happen. You may have a gut feeling about certain things, and if you are like me, you are usually right about that feeling. Anyway, now is the time when you need to face the situation in a calm and realistic fashion, and find out how to survive after an affair.

Rather than trying to stuff down your feelings about the affair, or run away from them, allow your feelings to come out and move into them. Focus on the negative feelings, and try to define exactly what they are. You need to get in touch with your emotions and pain, this will get you started in the right direction to be able to survive after an affair.

You need to clear your mind, and calm yourself down, so you will be able to start a step by step healing process. The healing process will involve you, you and your spouse. You may think that this is impossible at the moment, but all is not lost. Your marriage can be saved, and you and your spouse will be able to rebuild the trust that you once had before the affair.

For much more help and information, please look at the free e-course shown beside this post, or the free report.

More later, and best of luck.